I’ve tried to keep from being jealous when I hear about others having great success with their writing. I suppose it’s a human trait (how many times have I heard people say “She’s so beautiful–I hate her”) but it makes no logical sense. So I try to suppress it.
I try to be genuinely happy for people when they do well, and most of the time I do okay. I especially love to hear about people having success after a long period of failure. Gives me hope!
Today I heard this quote: “Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” (Maybe by Carrie Fisher, but maybe she was quoting someone else.)
The Man in Black: Â All right. Where is the poison? The battle of wits has begun. It ends when you decide and we both drink, and find out who is right… and who is dead.
Resentment and jealousy will only poison my well.
Love your quotes! I'm not sure how I feel about the success of others. I entered the game late and had to start from scratch. I think I had unrealistic expectations for sure. For me, it comes down to comparing myself to others. I'm not sure why I do that because it's illogical. It's like comparing apples to oranges. No two authors start on the same page. It is as you say, 'a human trait'. Princess Bride–all time classic!
Oh, I've suffered from Compare-itis for years. Where's the cure? I feel the same way you do…on the old side, compared to some, to be tackling this…but I'm determined.
I've heard that quote, too, with a little bit of variation (revenge maybe?). And I think I heard it from Oprah Winfrey. I wonder if it's just one of those quotes that everyone loves and nobody knows exactly where it originated.
yes, I found it in several variations when I was trying to find the source. Anger, revenge, etc. Good stuff, eh?
Since we all get a dose of resentment from time to time, I'm hoping that just the right amount can propel me into better motivation or writing. Too much can definately become poison, but just a touch can give me that wannbe feeling. Loved the photo.
Thanks, Renae!
You'll get there.
Thanks, Melissa!
Nice post. I haven't experienced this (yet–and I hope not to). I'm just thrilled that others are having success.
Thanks, Donna!
But it's so simple. All I have to do is devine from what I know of you, are the sort of woman who would put the poison into her own goblet or her enemy's?
. . . So all that time it was your goblet that was poisoned.
They were both poisoned. I've spent the last few years building an immunity to Iocaine (resentment) powder.
Luv. No wonder I like hanging out with you so much.
Oh! I am so glad to find you!!!!
Thanks so much, Emily. I feel the same way. Yay for G+!